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Discipline and positive parenting methods
Discipline Versus Punishment

Discipline teaches children how to develop self-control and be responsible for their own actions.

Punishment teaches children in a painful way—and after the fact—that a bigger, stronger person doesn’t like something they did. Punishment is a means of control.

Appropriate discipline techniques
  • talking through issues
  • praising and encouraging
  • modeling rules
  • establishing clear and consistent expectations
  • removing issue-related privileges
  • allowing children to experience the logical consequences of their actions

Inappropriate Punishments

  • corporal punishment, which means using physical force that may inflict pain, such as spanking, slapping or hitting
  • depriving a child of basic rights or needs like food, clothing, shelter, bedding, or access to their parents or guardians
  • physical punishment including shaking or forcefully pushing the child
  • degrading actions including humiliation, ridicule or abuse
  • group punishment for individual behaviour
  • being punished by another child
  • physical restraint, seclusion or confinement other than for the immediate safety of the child or another person
    • restraint is the act of intentionally restricting a child’s ability to move

 


Updated: January 14, 2009
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